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Millennial Mom

Hey guys, it's my favorite post of the year. The best of, looking back at 365 days and only remembering the good parts. Ha!

2018 | 2017 | 2016 | 2015 | 2014

2019 was really okay. I went into it with some resolutions to take action and read a lot of books, and I think we did that. We also drank a lot of tequila, put some miles on the VW chasing beach sunsets, and basically just stumbled around trying to find our way. It was a good year.

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1 || Home

In our actual home, we refinished our wood floors and stained the house and that was cool, but by "home" I mean northwestern Michigan. Duke and I did a lot of exploring and just hopping in the car to see weird things like the Rubber Ducky Festival in Bellaire, or driving for an hour and a half to see the sun go down while the bridge went up in Charlevoix. We zipped over to an island where you can't dock your boat. We hopped over to Arcadia to try the ice cream and scooted over to Empire to climb the bluffs.





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2 || But we loved our home most of all.




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3 || Duke B.

I think I say this every year, but Duke grew up a ton. I think this was the year he went from being a baby to a kid and I'm not going to lie. The kid part is a hell of a lot easier.






I've taken this picture on Labor Day every year since 2016, when I was a million months pregnant with my fingers crossed that "labor day" meant something more. It didn't. You can see the others here.


And here's another picture I kept taking this year. I thought it would be an interesting way to see how much Duke grew in a year, and I took that first picture in January. The other one was a few weeks ago. I plan to keep taking it until he has to lift me up.

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4 || On to our next series: Duke Riding on Things, 2019:






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5 || As for me, I drank a lot, read a lot, and snacked a lot. Wash, rinse, repeat.













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6 || Ice Cream Tour

Oh, we also ice cream toured. Which is a fancy way of pretending that you're getting ice cream with a purpose. We bopped all over the place and Arcadia's Banana Pudding ice cream lives in a very special place in my memory forever after.



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Other good stuff. The year was made up of so many small things, like a good hot summer and a pier to jump off of. And pizza with anchovies on it, eating it while watching the sunset at the Elberta overlook. A weekly farmers market and the nice lady that sells monster sized brownies. Family that moved here, friends that visited, and so many cocktails cheers-ed while the sun went down.









The cheese-balliest Christmas card of all time. This might be my favorite.
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Can you believe a decade wraps up today? At the beginning of the decade, we'd only been together for a few years, I was still waiting tables at Applebees and we lived with our two dogs in a 600 sq ft house on a little street called H Drive. And things were pretty cool, but a lot of really neat stuff has happened in 10 years. I graduated from college. Ryan and I got married. We lost a dog, and gained two more. We had a baby, bought a house, cycled through a few jobs, and made it out okay.

We've definitely aged, but I'm chalking that up to the latter half of the decade when we had a baby and pretty much quit sleeping.



Happy New Year, you guys. Let's get rich this year, move to Hawaii to drink pina coladas out of coconuts and confidently wear swim suits every day.  If that seems unrealistic, let's just drink more mimosas and sleep in a lot this year.
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Okay, we've got three more days to achieve every resolution we made last year and because procrastination is my favorite motivation, it's on over here. I'm getting manic. Last night, I cut my own hair and spent an hour googling "15 minute HIIT workouts" and "going plant-based."

So I think I need a brain break because the rabbit hole is right over there and I'm about to fall through it.

So let's talk about Christmas!

First thing, Duke had one dream this year and it was a remote controlled excavator, which I didn't even know existed, but Ryan found one and I haven't seen either one of those turkeys without the remote in their hands since.


We also got Duke a camera, which has been a blast. I can't wait to see the pictures he's been taking with family in and out all week.


We really didn't want a lot of clutter this year, so we kept the gifts on the light side. I let "something you want, something you need, something to wear, and something to read" really guide me and just seeing how delighted he is with a few really well chosen gifts was great. We end up throwing so many things out or giving them away, I am eager to take it down a notch so it feels less wasteful.

Here's a few highlights:

Ryan's wrapping paper. Ha!


Squeezing everyone in.


Squeezing everyone in v2.


The Festival of Trains.


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We had a really great Christmas, complete with a nap, too much food, and tempered expectations. It's the expectations that kill me every year and this time I just accepted that Christmas is more stressful than magical for me, which at least took out some of the guilt I feel every year for not getting totally into it. We had a really great, relaxing day and that is just the best gift of all.

Happy Christmas and New Year, you guys.


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Hey guys - Merry Christmas Eve! Can we stand in solidarity and just wonder Carrie Bradshaw style where the heck December went? I'm delighted, but man, it went fast.

Hey, remember when I said I went grocery shopping for the last time this year because I hate going to Meijer - in general but especially - during the holiday season? Well, that fell apart. Ryan needed razors and I thought I could just run in real quick. False. You guys, it sucked. I texted Ryan that I was in hell and that just in case hell actually is a burning lake of fire + waiting in line to check out at Meijer on December 23rd, then we should think about getting our act together because it's not worth it.

And I mean you know I didn't just run in for razors. I thought I'd see if they had peppermint ice cream (they didn't) and I browsed the holiday wine selection which reminded me to grab another box of hot cocoa, and should I get some peppermint vodka while I'm at it? I definitely made my own bed, but man, grocery stores just bring out the worst in me. If you want to make me into a real bish, send me to a grocery store.

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1 || PINNING

Starbucks Gingerbread House
Starbucks

Quotes about Stress Damage
Jessica Silsby

Wild Revival Co Christmas Decor
Wild Revival Co. 

And if beautiful Christmas things are your jam, here's a few of my favorites:
@KJP - The King of Christmas (and October).
@WildRevivalCo - The most inspiring home design.
@theseptemberchronicles - Christmas around the world.

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2 || CHRISTMAS PLAYLIST

We are very into Kacey Musgraves (and by "we", I obviously mean "me" and I'm taking my family down with me) so our Christmas music reflects that. Also worth a watch is the Kacey Musgraves Christmas special on Prime.

Other winners:
Hip-hop Christmas: only listen if there aren't children around and you enjoy laughing.
Christmas Cocktail Jazz: this is what we listen to in the morning.

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3 || LINKS

  • If the Wild Revival Co picture above knocked your socks off, check out the full tour right here. 
  • Love these beautiful, but simple bags.
  • As if you're not shopped out. But 2020 is coming and you're going to need a calendar, right?  
  • I guess I'm the one bringing politics to Christmas this year. On my Christmas list. 
  • Dolly Parton celebrated 50 years at the Grand Ol Opry. Ryan and I watched it on Hulu the other night and it does not disappoint. 
  • What I'm reading. Also in the middle of A Christmas Carol. I know the story, but I've never read it. 
  • Related: I'm considering making this my 2020 booklist. 
  • Something fun: apparently I'm an "Italian at heart." What about you?
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4 || SHOPPING

What I bought for other people that I want for myself:

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5 || PLANS

Well, it's Christmas Eve and for me, that's a holiday. We're going to take Duke to see some Christmas trains and then I'm going to make the cheeseboard that I pretend is a tradition, but really I make one a couple times a week every week, so whatever.

Yesterday Duke peeped in my closet and gave me some motivation to wrap all the presents, so that's done. We're officially suited up for the holiday and looking forward to just enjoying.

Happy Christmas you guys. May all our kids sleep past 6am tomorrow.

Traverse City Michigan Christmas Window

Oh and happy indulging. We've got a week before we have to pretend to get our lives together for the best 2020 ever. Ha!
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Back in January, I kicked off my year with a resolution to read 12 books. I also wanted to lose 15lbs, become instagram famous and move to Hawaii to "influence" while drinking pina coladas on the beach for a living, but resolutions are designed to be unrealistic. Anyway, it was roughly 11.5 more than I read in 2016, 2017, and 2018 combined, so it felt kind of lofty. But then this year Duke became really self-sufficient (which is so cool) and maybe because I gave myself a numerical goal, I read a lot more than I thought I would. This year, I read 38 books and that included some new favorites, along with some hilariously bad stinkers. You can find my monthly reviews here, but for a more year inclusive version, welcome to my first annual Book Awards. 



THE BEST
Fiction - The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo - Stieg Larsen
Obviously I'm about ten years late to this party, but the text aged well, I guess. I was so engaged, I read this in parking lots and through every lunch break and even at the indoor playground at the mall that I hate because it looks like it's never been cleaned, but Duke loves it and gives me hour long chunks to just reaaaad. 

Non-Fiction - On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft - Stephen King

Audio Book - Joyland - Stephen King
Classic King novel. If he's your cup of tea, this is a good-sized mug of it. 

Re-Read - The Good Earth - Pearl S. Buck

Honorable Mentions (otherwise titled, highly recommended)
Joy in the Morning - Betty Smith
History of a Pleasure Seeker - Richard Mason
The Corner of the Oval - Beck Dorey-Stein
Non-fiction and one of my favorite reads this year. A White House stenographer writes about her years under the Obama administration, but  with a healthy dose of her personal life too. There's a lot of alcohol and Cape Codders, which I've been calling a "vodka cranberry, please" like an uneducated fool my whole life. 


THE WORST
Most Laughably Bad - Separate Beds - LaVyrle Spencer
I'm still mad at my Oma for recommending this book to me. It was so hilariously bad, I laughed at so many parts that weren't meant to be funny. Its only redeeming quality was that it got me through a 24 hour flu in February. 

The Struggle I Powered Through - Secret Daughter - Shilpi Somaya Gowda
This one has great reviews and it was well written. I just wasn't into it. 

The One I Gave Up On Soonest - My Coney Island Baby - Billy O'Callaghan
Great concept, epically slow execution. 

Most WTF - The Language of Secrets - Dionne Dixon
A plot twist in literally the last sentence of the book. I have still not recovered from this book.



The books I gave up on 
A Visit From The Goon Squad - Boring. 
The Aviator's Wife - Juvenile writing. 
The 19th Wife - Never gained steam. 
Little Bee - I couldn't get into it, looked up the plot online, and ruined it for myself. 
My Coney Island Baby - Sounded good, but the pick-up was slow. 

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You can see the full list of books I read this year HERE.

See you in 2020 for another big books goal. And I'm always open for recommendations!
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